What's your big dream? What have you been telling yourself you want to do for the longest time, but it just hasn't happened? Start a business? Lose weight? Find Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now)? Go back to school? Take karate?
I made the shift from "why I can't" to "why I can" on a few of my biggies ... because I frankly got tired of waiting "until" ... "until" I get remarried (and have an extra set of hands), until my daughter is old enough to be home by herself, until I have enough cashola, time, support ... and just finally made a plan and took Step #1.