The hardest thing to do, according to moms and single moms everywhere, is asking for help. Alisa pointed out that she already has a long list of things to do and knows that every other mom does too. She doesn't want to add more to someone else's list, so she struggles on her own.
There are two important things to note:
(1) almost everyone wants to help you and they would be more than happy to do so, and
(2) many hands make light work.